Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Easter in Antwerp

Nana arrived on Saturday for a 9 day visit to coincide with Easter, her birthday, Jude's 2nd birthday and Pete's work trip to Nashville. Not one to let one of Pete's holidays go to waste, I planned a trip to Antwerp, Belgium for Sunday-Monday. Then the attacks happened in Brussels and we weren't sure what to do. Stay home where it is safe (is it safe??) or take our chances traveling. We decided that there didn't appear to be a threat to Antwerp so off we went, albeit with a bit of trepidation if I'm being honest.  There was nothing to fear and we had a really nice little getaway.

Things were pretty quiet in the city due to the Easter holidays. There were plenty of armed soldiers/police/national guard, but otherwise it seemed like business as usual. Antwerp is only an hour and a half drive from Amsterdam. Pete and I joked that after an hour and a half driving from our old apartment in Brooklyn, we maybe would be in Westchester! We stayed at a comfortable AirBnB apartment in the city center with a playground right out the front door- bonus!

Supporting the arts and jamming per usual.
Approaching Antwerpen Central- the city's gorgeous train station.


What greets passengers arriving by train to Antwerp. 
We settled in for lunch at a grand cafe inside the train station,
Nana and Jude "iceskating" waiting for the food to arrive.
Heading to the medieval center


Nap time
Cathedral of Our Lady




Town Hall
I love Europe :)

Antwerp got its name from the story of Silvius Brabo (pictured in the statue) who once killed a giant, Druon Antigoon. He cut off the giant's hand and threw it into the river Scheldt. "Hand werpen" (Antwerpen) is Dutch for hand throwing. 


Roar like a lion!



On Monday, after some playground time, we went to the Antwerp Zoo. Though not as old as the Zoo we went to in Vienna, it is still one of the oldest in Europe and has beautiful grounds tucked right up against Central Station.


Excited to go to the zoo!








Zoo cafeteria- gorgeous building!
 There was plenty more to see in Antwerp that we didn't get to. I have a feeling we'll be back!

Monday, March 28, 2016

Easter Egg Hunting

Jude attended two Easter egg hunts this weekend- a small gathering hosted by friends on Friday and a huge hunt hosted by Amsterdam Mamas on Saturday. I couldn't attend the first, but Pete tells me that Jude squealed with joy as all of the kids were released into the backyard to find the eggs. He had zero interest in the contents of the eggs he found so we have quite a stash of chocolates around!

Saturday's event was so much fun. Everywhere we turned, we saw friends from Jude's classes, my mom group, my book club, my new pregnancy group, Jude's daycare and ISA. I really feel like we are part of this greater community here and it is a good feeling. It was a gorgeous spring morning in the beautiful Beatrixpark (brisk, but sunny). Jude was moderately interested in finding eggs. Mostly, he wanted to play with his day care friend Espen and go on the very popular nest swing. 

Saturday afternoon, Nana arrived for a 9 day visit. She brought with her some Easter gifts for Jude and Peeps for me. Jude asked to try the Peeps, but thankfully didn't like them. I would have been a bit upset if I had to share the precious treat! 

This is serious business
Winning the egg relay
Found with a little help from mom and dad

Friday, March 25, 2016

Dutch Social Policies Rock!

I'm not sure that a utopia exists in the world these days. The political situation back home baffles and infuriates me. And Europe is facing its fair share of troubles with terrorist attacks, the growing immigration problem, and the failed economies of the Southern countries.

But life in the Netherlands (for now) is good. This is not a socialist country, but you could have fooled me. Taxes are high, but the people are taken care of, higher education is dirt cheap and the people here are generally happy and proud of their small, well-run country.

We are benefitting immensely from some of the Dutch socialist-esque policies starting with the child allowance, which is soon to double when baby girl arrives in May and the Kraamzorg.

Day care and the Kinderopvangtoeslag (AKA: Childcare allowance):

As in America, daycare here is not cheap. Jude's center charges around 8 euro ($9) an hour and you pay for the full 11 hour day regardless of how many hours you use. Apart from a private nanny, this is on the high end and comparable to what we found in Brooklyn. However, in every household where both parents are either working or studying, kinderopvangtoeslag is given monthly by the government. It is based on income levels and the number of hours you work/send your child to daycare, but we get over 40% back, making daycare very affordable at around 4.50 euro ($5) per hour!

Next up: Maternity leave.

It took working 5 years and saving practically every sick day to get ~12 weeks of paid leave from my job in New York. I could have used vacation time as well, but I never had any of that saved! There was no "paid leave," just using your own time. Of course, this policy varies greatly from employer to employer in America and may be seen as good to some and awful to others.

In the Netherlands, all female employees receive around 16 weeks of maternity leave, paid by the government. The first 4 weeks have to be before your due date (hence seeing lots of very pregnant women out at cafes during the daytime!). The rest are taken after baby arrives.

Working for myself now as a consultant, I had no expectations of making any income during the period of time I'll take off with baby girl. Then I heard about the Zelfstandig en Zwangerrgeling (ZEZ). Maternity Benefit Scheme for the Self-Employed!! I, too, will get paid maternity leave for 16 weeks since I have a registered business and am paying Dutch taxes. For the self-employed, the daily wage is capped at the minimum wage so I won't be raking it in, but it is still unexpected money! And there was no minimum amount of time I needed to work before qualifying, I just had to prove that I was earning a steady income up until my due date.

Paternity leave is a different story entirely. Men are entitled to just 2 days (will change in 2017 to 1 week). Here, the Dutch could do a lot better!

Lastly: Part time work= part time benefits

You know how in the States, you only qualify to receive benefits if you work a minimum number of hours a week? Well here everything is prorated. So if you work 25%, you get 25% of benefits paid, 75%=75%, ect. This extremely reasonable policy must be part of why the culture of part time work is so prevalent. Families don't have to worry about losing their benefits if one of the partners goes part time.

We feel very fortunate to be living in a country that has policies like these and hope to return one day to an America heading in that direction. This year's election will be very telling... and we'll be on the edge of our seats over here!

Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Sunday Funday in Dublin

After a night of rest, I was able to walk again so we took advantage of our final day and headed back into the city to see the area about Merrion Square. I was excited to see the "doors of Dublin" (a number of which are featured below). Georgian architecture abounded around this part of town. 




Merrion Square featured a great playground. Here is Jude doing his favorite thing!


Taoiseach is the English word?!


Another panning practice. We heard the Viking tours were great fun, but they don't allow kids under 2. 
In the afternoon before our flight home, we went to brunch with the family and found a bayside playground, where Jude got to ride in the big swing with his friends. He was in heaven! 




Goodbye, Ireland!
May the road rise up to meet you.

May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.